Why does nobody love me?
I am 22 years old, and I have been told numerous times that I am beautiful/stunning, etc. (I’m not boasting, this is all relevant to my question), I am smart, athletic, and creative. I laugh a lot, I am confident (but not obnoxiously so, nor am I arrogant. I dress nicely (European style - I won’t say which country though).
But I have never been asked on a date. Never. Never been kissed. Nothing. Hit on, but never the sweep-you-off-your-feet, storybook romance. And it hurts :’( I have cried myself to sleep so many times before, because I feel just SO unloved.
I have an amazing family, we are all super close, and I couldn’t survive without them - but you need more.
So I want to know, 1) are there any other people like me out there? 2) Why do you think this is happening to me? What’s the reason? 3) Ways to fix this problem? Maybe I’m doing something wrong?
I’m that girl who sits right next to someone great, wishing they’d love me, but knowing they don’t.